Why is writing so frustrating?

Why is writing so frustrating?

And how to make it less painful, more powerful, and way more purposeful

If you’ve ever sat at your desk, stared at a blinking cursor, and seriously contemplated throwing your computer out the window, you’re not alone.

As a professional writer I used to do this almost every day.

Writing is everywhere in nonprofit work: grant proposals, appeal letters, emails, social posts, blogs, reports, speeches, board updates, and more. You’re expected to write clearly, quickly, and convincingly.

It doesn’t take much to feel the overwhelm!

But the frustration isn’t usually because you’re bad at writing and communicating. The issues might originate from being asked to do too much with too little structure and no breathing room.

Let’s dig into why writing feels so hard, and what you can do to make it feel more manageable and impactful for your mission-driven business or organization.

Why writing feels frustrating

Writing taps into some of the most vulnerable parts of ourselves. 

It’s where ego fights feelings of inadequacy every time someone marks up your work with a “this is a good start,” or “I offered some suggestions.”

You’re multitasking many different areas with many different technical applications

Appeals and grants

Social media and newsletters

Blog posts and web content

Board reports and press releases

Event scripts and speech drafts

Editing someone else’s work (ugh)

It’s a lot, and I know that’s a short list.

Writing hurts the ego

Even experienced communicators struggle with:

Writer’s block

Weird feedback

Vague revisions

“This just doesn’t sound right…”

Group editing 

Feeling like no one will read it anyway

Remember this, too: most of us think we can write, which makes it harder to set boundaries around your own expertise.

Why writing less is more

Here’s a bit about why saying no to content volume for volume’s sake is the right strategic decision in many cases:

High-quality content lasts a long time

One thoughtfully crafted piece can last for months (or even years). 

Think about it like this: a blog post can turn into a donor email, then a case study, then a grant excerpt, then an event talking point! The possibilities really are endless, you guys.

HubSpot reports that 10% of content accounts for 38% of website traffic. That’s the power of evergreen content!

Fewer, more polished pieces encourage high levels of trust

People know quality when they see it. One great LinkedIn article can bring 10x the engagement of 10 generic posts.

68% of donors are more likely to give again after receiving a compelling follow-up story. – Tech for Good

Get time back for meaningful work

When you focus on a few strong projects:

You get time to actually edit

You can design better visuals

You improve distribution and reach

Let’s get weeding: clean up your comms garden

Great writing is like gardening. You don’t need to grow everything. You need to grow what matters most.

Create one pillar piece each quarter

Anchor your content strategy around a single, high-value story, ike:

A donor impact profile

A program highlight

A staff feature

A behind-the-scenes process story

From that, you can pull:

Social media snippets

Newsletter copy

Video scripts

Fundraising appeals

Prune low-performing platforms

If a channel isn’t engaging your audience, and it’s costing you time—let it go.

Ask:

Is it helping drive donations, signups, or engagement?

Does it reach our people?

How much time does it take to maintain?

Focus your energy where you see real mission impact.

Eliminate group edits

Group editing is death by a thousand cuts. Instead:

Assign a single owner/editor

Let others review via comment-only

Set a deadline for input

Embrace a newsroom mentality

Imagine your comms team as a small, scrappy newsroom:

You interview your experts

You draft quickly, revise strategically

You sharpen the voice with editorial clarity

You produce fewer but stronger stories

It doesn’t work for every team, but when it works? It changes your communications flow and creates less stress and more time.

Save your sanity

Doing less and focusing on quality is truly sustainable and strategic.

By reducing writing fatigue, you’ll produce work you can actually be proud of. You’ll build a reputation for thoughtfulness and clarity.

ABOUTLonna Whiting is Garden’s founder and editor-in-chief. She has more than two decades of experience in content marketing, journalism, fundraising communications, and public relations. #ENDALZGET IN TOUCHlonna@gardencommunications.com

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